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"When angry, count four;
when very angry, swear."
"But now you yourselves are to put
off all these: anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy language out of your
mouth."
-- Colossians 3:8
In a recent edition of the Ft.
Worth Star Telegram, an article on the subject of Cursing appeared in the Life
& Arts section. The article was a good example of unbiased reporting, as it
just reported the societal trend of increased cursing and swearing, while not
commenting on the appropriateness of the trend. I do not intend to be unbiased
however, in commenting on the trend. The use of obscenity is condemned in
scripture, and unworthy behavior for one who would please God.
One individual quoted in the
article is a psychologist in Ft. Worth by the name of Richard Citrin. He said,
"Clearly, the permissiveness of today's culture allows this. It's undeniable
that things never said in public even a generation ago have become part of our
language. I don't say that common usage makes these terms appropriate, but
they are in large part accepted." He is right on in this. Common usage does
not make cursing right! Common usage is characteristic of the world, not the
child of God. The Bible clearly states that we are to "... have no fellowship
with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them" (Ephesians
5:11). Christians are to " ... walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise,
redeeming the time, because the days are evil" (Ephesians 5:15-16).
But, why has cursing increased?
Why is culture more permissive of such obscenity? According to the article
Richard Tallingen, a Media scholar in New York, said, " ... it became clear
that younger people, as they began to have more money to spend, liked to spend
it on things that would shock their parents and teachers and ministers. So TV,
music, books, all those things that help shape our culture,
got racier and racier. It hasn't
really stopped since." Furthermore, Toni Taylor, a fourth grade teacher in
Arlington, believes that even very young children are learning to curse at
home. She said, "I've had parents come to school and start swearing during
conferences."
It seems that these things are
cyclical in nature. No doubt the pagans of the first century were every bit as
corrupt as a people as our society seems to be today. Paul spoke of them as
"being filled with all unrighteousness, sexual immorality, wickedness,
covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit,
evil-mindedness; they are whisperers, backbiters, haters of God, violent,
proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents,
undiscerning, untrustworthy, unloving, unforgiving, unmerciful; who, knowing
the righteous judgment of God, that those who practice such things are
deserving of death, not only do the same but also approve of those who
practice them" (Romans 1:29-32). American society today is very much
characterized by the same ungodliness. In fact, if I
were not aware of the date of
Paul's writing, I would think
this scripture to be directly
pointed to our day. Paul warned Timothy of this cycle of ungodliness, and
instructed him as to how to deal with it. He said in 2 Timothy 3:13-14, "But
evil men and impostors will grow worse and worse, deceiving and being
deceived. But you must continue in the things which you have learned and been
assured of...."
An example of these "evil men" is
found in the Telegram article. A Fort Worth "poet/essayist" by the name of
William Bryan Massey III is said to frequently use profanity in his writing.
In fact, the article stated, "Few of Massey's poems or essays could be even
partially reprinted in a family newspaper, but he thinks this is a mark of
distinction, not dishonor." Notice his rationale for using such obscenity, "I
choose the words that best express the idea or feeling I'm trying to get
across to the reader. Some people say that poems or whatever could be just as
good without [obscenities]. But when I'm using the language, I want to take
advantage of every word." Such absurd drivel would be laughable if it were not
such a sad commentary on our times.
Educated people have always
considered obscenity the haven of the coarse, uneducated and immoral man. It
is the language of the drunken sailor, not the poet; of the tramp, not the
businessman; of the lawbreaker, not the lawmaker. If that is now changing, we
are saddened. However, we as Christians must refuse to be influenced by this
ungodliness. We are called to a higher standard. Paul wrote to the
Thessalonians, "Therefore we also pray always for you that our God would count
you worthy of this calling, and fulfill all the good pleasure of His goodness
and the work of faith with power, that the name of our Lord Jesus Christ may
be glorified in you, and you in Him, according to the grace of our God and the
Lord Jesus Christ" (2 Thessalonians 1:11-12).
May God Bless you and yours richly
and pray for blessings for the Town Branch Church
Come visit us at Town Branch
Christian Victory Fellowship in Prestonsburg, Ky.
Where
“Love Never Fails.”
Confession of faith:
The Bible
"If anyone speaks, he should do it as one speaking the very words of God. If
anyone serves, he should do it with the strength God provides, so that in all
things God may be praised through Jesus Christ. To him be the glory and the
power for ever and ever. Amen." (1 Peter 4:11NIV)

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